Monday 19 March 2018

A Window Into The Soul

A Window into The Soul.....

by Emily McMorran


This phenomenon being called ‘The Event’ is curious indeed!  There will be many who are completely unaware and, conversely, many, including me, who are really affected by the increase in energies and finding themselves feeling perhaps a little discombobulated as their physical 3D bodies adjust to the changes.  

I have  felt that there is a much brighter sense of light around, even though we have had an overcast sky since snow arrived, again, on Saturday.   

I have needed to meditate a great deal and rest and have felt in a state of limbo a great deal of the time as I feel my old ‘fears’ fighting to stay whilst my ‘Angel’ or ‘Higher’ Self does its best to comfort me as I feel my DNA continuing to be re-written as the ascendant process on Earth continues!  

I have felt myself vacillating between 3rd; 4th & 5th dimensions as things change in and around me as I seek the comfort and safety of my home - aka The Healing House as a number of my friends call it...... which is and has been for some time in 7th Dimension.... (maybe that's why I often feel invisible ha ha!) All the Angels; Ascended Masters and my many crystals vie for the lead to give comfort and protection.....

I am blessed 🌸💗🌺 

Monday 11 September 2017

Finding Your True Calling By: Brian Tracy


The very worst use of time in life is to stay for months or years at a job for which you are completely unsuited, while still not finding your true calling. However, a great number of people spend their whole lives doing something during the week so that they can somehow find something enjoyable to do on the weekend.

In every case, these are men and women with very little future before them. They look upon their jobs as a form of drudgery, a penance they have to pay in order to enjoy the rest of their lives. And because of this attitude, they will seldom advance or be promoted. They will stay pretty much at the same level, moving from job to job, and always wondering why other people seem to live the “good life” while they feel they are living lives of quiet desperation.

People who are not successful and happy in their work are those who have not taken the time to sit down and deal honestly and openly with themselves. They have not looked deep within themselves to recognize the inner treasures of talent and ability that they have demonstrated throughout their lives. They are content to do work that other people design and to achieve goals that other people set.

Over time, people who are not following their true calling begin to feel helpless. They feel that there is nothing they can do to change things. Their income rises enough only to meet their expenditures, and they worry about money much of the time. The future looks to them to be very much the same as the past. But this is not for you!

Your aim in life is to become everything you are capable of becoming, to enjoy full self-expression of your talents and abilities. Your job is to develop yourself to the point at which every day is a source of joy and satisfaction, and you have so many interesting things to do that you do not have enough time to do them. Your mission is to continually hold up a mirror to yourself and refuse to work at anything that is not an expression of everything that is good and capable within you.

Success comes from being excellent at what you do. The market pays excellent rewards only for excellent performance. It pays average rewards for average performance, and below average rewards  and insecurity for below-average performance.

But excellence is a journey, not a destination. You never really get there. You can never relax. The market is always changing, and what constitutes excellence today will be different tomorrow and very different next year and the year after.

All really successful and happy people know in their hearts that they are very good at what they do. If you are doing what you really enjoy or love, if you are following your true calling, you will know because of your attitude toward excellence.

When you have found your true calling, nothing but the best will do for you, and you will go any distance, pay any price, and overcome any obstacle to develop yourself to the point at which you are really good at what you do.

When you find your true calling, you will have a continuous desire to learn more about it. A person who is not driven to learn more about his field is a person who is in the wrong job. And if a person is in the wrong job and not constantly learning and growing in his or her field, that person’s value and his or her employability is diminishing with each passing day.

When you find your true calling, you will be determined to join the top 10 percent of people in your field. You will be willing to pay any price that is necessary to rise to the top. You will be willing to start work earlier than anyone else, work harder than anyone else, and work later than anyone else.
A simple test as to whether or not you are in your true calling is this: If you are doing the job that is meant for you, that uses your unique talents, you will automatically admire those who are at the top of your field. You will look up to them and want to be like them. They will be your role models, and you will pattern your work and activities after them. You will want to meet them, speak with them, read their books, and listen to their talks. The very best people in your chosen field will become the examples that give you guidance, both spoken and unspoken, on your upward journey.

Throughout the years, I have been continually asked by people what they can do to be more successful. In almost every case, these people are working in jobs that they don’t like, for bosses they don’t particularly respect, producing or selling products or services to customers they don’t care about. And many of them think that if they just hang in there long enough, the clouds will part and everything will get better.

But the fact is that you are where you are and who you are because you have chosen to be there. Nobody can help you or change your situation for you. The economic goal of your company is to hire people at the very lowest cost so that they can serve customers at the very lowest cost in a competitive market. For this reason, no one has any obligation to pay you any more than you are getting. If possible, he or she would like to pay you less.

You must become great at doing what you are doing if you want to move up. And if you don’t have the inner desire to be great at your job, it means you are probably in the wrong job.

A great tragedy is the number of people who do their jobs in an average or mediocre fashion and with the idea that when the right job comes along, they will really put their heads down and do a great job. But for some reason, the right job never comes along. They are always passed over for promotions or advancement. They are always the last ones hired and the first ones laid off.

If you’re still not sure about your true calling, ask the people closest to you, “What do you think I would do the best at in my life?” It is amazing how people around you, including your spouse, your best friends, and your parents, can clearly see what you should be doing when often you cannot see it yourself.

Remember, you were put on this earth to do something wonderful with your life. You have within you talents and abilities so vast that you could never use them all if you lived to be a thousand years old. You have natural skills and talents that can enable you to overcome any obstacles and achieve any goal you could ever set for yourself. There are no limits on what you can be, have, or do if you have your true calling, and then throw your whole heart into doing what you were made to do in an excellent fashion.

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Sunday 10 September 2017

Failure Is a Choice Made by the Undisciplined By: Vic Conant


We call some people “self disciplined” and others we call “undisciplined.” And what’s fascinating is that one person can be disciplined at one thing but not at another. I know an extremely successful businesswoman who has run two different billion-dollar businesses. If you saw her in her business environment, you would say she was disciplined. However, this same woman has had an extreme weight problem for as long as I’ve known her, and so far she hasn’t had discipline in that area of her life, even though she would identify it as an area of tremendous concern to her.

How can this happen? How can a brilliant person so strong and disciplined in one area of his or her life be so undisciplined and unsuccessful in another?

The answer is deceptively simple. Discipline always involves the act of reaching a goal, and it also reflects the level of commitment that is attached to the goal. Furthermore, our various personal commitments will be ranked in the order we consciously, or more likely unconsciously, believe fit with our life priorities.

When goals are set halfheartedly and they don’t reflect our top life priorities, there should be no surprise when we display low discipline and we fail.

The vast majority of us have no grasp of what our top life priorities are. And because we aren’t conscious of them, we tend to move them around very fluidly. That’s why weight may seem like a high priority on Monday but be lowered to a secondary importance below taste enjoyment by Friday. Likewise, fidelity might seem like the highest priority until temptation comes in our path.

In general we allow ourselves to get in the habit of setting goals for which we are not truly committed, and then we beat ourselves up when we fail at achieving them. There is a huge difference between even a 99% commitment and a 100% commitment. Choosing to be disciplined about something means committing 100% to reaching the objective.

My great friend Wayne Dyer (author of The Secrets to Manifesting Your Destiny) is a wonderful example of what it means to be “truly disciplined.” There was a time when Wayne had run eight miles every day for 21 years in a row without missing a day! That’s over 7,665 days straight running eight miles a day with no exceptions! I don’t know about you, but I’d be overwhelmed with the thought of attempting that. And yet to Wayne, it was a part of his day every day without exception. Now I think Wayne would admit he isn’t disciplined at everything. But what allowed him to be so disciplined at this?

He simply made running the most, or certainly one of the most, important activities in his day, every day. The great thing about this is that you simply don’t allow anything to get in the way of the most important objectives in your day. Everything else takes a lower priority. All of a sudden reaching the objective becomes easy. You become disciplined.

In the case of Wayne, I’m sure that over the 21-year period there were literally millions of things that he could have used as an excuse not to run one of those days. But, because it was one of his top priorities, nothing got in the way of Wayne’s running. He ran when he had a fever, he ran in place on long flights, and during bad weather he would run up and down the halls of his hotel. That’s discipline!

Here’s a fun, potentially life-changing game I’d encourage you to play. Pick out an area of your life that you’ve had weak discipline in in the past. Set an objective relating to this area. Now, set that objective as your life’s top priority or at least put it in the very top few. Then set a minimum time that you will stay committed to this objective. I’d recommend a minimum of a month, but for this game you could even choose a week. If you can be disciplined for one week, you can be disciplined for as long as you choose.

Now, this is going to mean reprioritizing your time from your normal weekly schedule, but you’ll do it  Why? Because it’s your top priority!

While doing this, you’re going to experience an interesting phenomenon. In the past, when you have set halfhearted objectives, your brilliant mind would start figuring out how to get around the objective to get you back to your comfort zone. However, now you’ll find when it’s your top priority, your mind works only on achieving the objective and taking you where you really want to go.

During this trial period I suggest you keep a priority journal. Each time you fail to meet your objective, write down what activity or activities took a higher priority. It will prove to be interesting to see what you allow as an excuse to knock your objective from its top position.

You will realize that failing to meet your objectives, regardless of what they are, is a choice, because something else has been given higher priority. If you fail, it is because you choose to fail  It’s as simple as that!

Have fun with this! That’s what life is all about! I’d love to hear the results of your discipline experiment. Please email me at vicc@nightingale.com and tell me your results.

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Thursday 7 September 2017

Cultivating Your Enterprising Nature By: Jim Rohn



We’re all aware that many people feel that we must be careful when focusing on money or affluence or abundance; that in the pursuit of those things, there is danger. If you pursue money and affluence to the exclusion of other values in life, you have lost, not won.

However, let’s consider this question: If you could do better financially, should you? In the time you have allotted to labor, economics, success, achievement, productivity, the creation of value, the development of skills and creativity, if you could do better, should you?

I believe one of the greatest satisfactions of living life to the fullest is doing the best you can with whatever you have. Doing anything less than your best has a way of eroding the psyche. We are creatures of enterprise. Life seems to say to us, “Here are the raw materials your creativity, and 24 hours to use it. What splendid things can you produce?”

The Enterprising Person

Enterprising people are those people disciplined and dedicated enough to seize opportunities that present themselves … regardless of the current situation, struggles, or obstacles.

Think of a few people you know who are enterprising. Think of people in the news, in your office, in your neighborhood, who manage to succeed regardless of the obstacles. What do these people have in common? They’re probably always on the go, developing a plan, following a plan, reworking the plan until it fits. They’re probably resourceful, never letting anything get in the way. They probably don’t understand the word no when it applies to their visions of the future. And, when faced with a problem, they probably say, “Let’s figure out a way to make it work,” instead of, “It won’t work.”
Enterprising people see the future in the present. They will always find a way to take advantage of situations, not be burdened by them. And enterprising people aren’t lazy. They don’t wait for opportunities to come to them; they go after the opportunities. Enterprising means always finding a way to keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.

However, we humans can be particularly creative at working at less than our potential.

Work Smarter

It’s an obvious, yet often overlooked truth: rich people have 24 hours a day. And, poor people have 24 hours a day.

The difference between the rich and the poor is in the management of that time. Successful people often work harder and longer than most, but they almost always work smarter.

If we get more from ourselves, if we can make an hour as valuable as 10 hours used to be, we can get as much done in a day as we used to get done in a week. Imagine the potential compounding effect of working smarter.

By practicing a few simple disciplines every day, you can use time like the rich with focus and effectiveness.

1) Run the day, or it will run you. Part of the key to time management is staying in charge. Some will be masters of their time, and some will be servants. Enterprising people become the masters of their time.

To master your time, you must have clear written goals for each day that you keep with you at all times. It helps to create each day’s list the night before. Prioritize your goals for the day and constantly review them.

And here’s a good question to ask yourself constantly: Is this a major activity or a minor activity? By asking that question, you will reduce the amazingly natural tendency to spend major time on minor things. In sales training, we are taught that major time is the time spent in the presence of the prospect, while minor time is the time spent on the way to the prospect. If you are not careful, you will spend more time “on the way to” than “in the presence of” your goals.

Before you answer an email, ask yourself if this is a major activity or a minor activity. Before you make a phone call, ask yourself if this is a major phone call or a minor phone call. Enterprising people don’t let the minor activities distract them from the major activities the ones that hold the keys to their success.

2) Don’t mistake activity for productivity. You probably know some people who always seem to be busy being busy. To be successful, you must be busy being productive. Some people are going, going, going, but they’re doing figure eights. They’re not making much progress. Don’t mistake activity for productivity, movement for achievement. Evaluate the hours in your days, and see if there is wasted time that you could manage better.

Remember there is an opportunity cost to every single activity you do. The time you spend doing one thing is time you could spend doing something else. Before investing your time in anything, briefly ask yourself if this is the highest leverage activity you could be doing to accomplish the most important priority on your list for the day. And, make sure the activities on your list for the day are the highest leverage opportunities to accomplish your short- and long-term goals.

3) Focus. The third key to time management is good concentration. You’ve got to zero in on the job at hand and, like an ant, let nothing stand in your way and let nothing distract you from the task. Assuming this is a major activity in pursuit of the highest leverage opportunity available, there should be nothing more valuable to invest your time in.

This is easier said than done. Concentration takes a lot of discipline. It takes discipline to demand privacy, to not react to the minor activities that try to demand your attention, such as new emails and ringing phones.

If you have a long list of things to get done within one day, do the toughest one while your concentration is at its peak. If you’re a morning person, get the job done in the morning. Don’t wait until the evening when your energy is all spent. Do the jobs that need the most concentration when your body is best able to handle them.

One of the greatest enemies of this sort of concentration is worry. Worrying about your future can prevent you from being where you are right now. We all have worries, and they are useful. But, don’t let worry distract you. Stay focused on changing what you can change — that is the only true way to overcome the source of your worry anyhow.


Enterprise is always better than ease. Every time we choose to do less than we possibly can, we limit our possibilities — we stifle our potential. You can alter your life by doing a little more each day to work smarter, by developing a habit of efficiency rather than the habit of activity.


The Ant Philosophy

When was the last time you saw ants reach an obstacle and give up with their heads down and head back to the ant hole to relax? Never. If they’re headed somewhere and you try to stop them, they will look for another way. They’ll climb over, they’ll climb under, they’ll go around — regardless of the effort involved. What a neat philosophy, to never quit looking for a way to get where you’re supposed to go.

Here’s another question. How much will an ant gather during the summer to prepare for winter? All that it possibly can. Ants don’t have quotas or “good enough” philosophies. They don’t gather a certain amount and then head back to the hole to “hang out.” If an ant can do more, it does.
Imagine what you could accomplish if you never quit and always did all that you could do.

Learn more about Jim Rohn and his audio series The Day that Turned Your Life Around.

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